My Spirited Child

Oh my strong willed child.
Some feel you're so wild.

You're so bright and can be so joyous.
But your anger and frustration can really annoy us.

We look to others for support.
But if they have no such experience, Negative vibes are what they purport.

We must prepare you for so many situations in advance.
Anticipation is crucial for a peaceful daily dance.

Sometimes I must speak-up and defend you.
Sometimes I must set a limit.
Yet my urge to blame and shame can get in the way.
And I can't always dam it.

Your spirit is so inspiring.
Keep dreaming and aspiring.

Lester J. Hartman, MD

(A great reference is the book, Raising Your Spirited Child by Mary Sheedy Kurcinka)